|Photo credits to Jimmy Sadler|
There ARE times when I fantasize about what life would be like in a smaller, less-hectic household. Those are the times when I think of the things I *SHOULD HAVE* thought through prior to having children.
- Not getting enough sleep. EVER. AGAIN. Because those babies want to eat...all.the.time. And those toddlers will be up at ungodly hours in the morning, after keeping you up all night long barfing. And the middle schoolers and high schoolers have activities in the evening, and then have to be up again in the morning. Early. To get on the bus, or be driven to school (and God-forbid I drive them in my PJs!). And jobs. And middle-of-the-night phone calls from college. And by that point, my body is just in the habit of *not* sleeping, so of course now that I *might* be able to sleep in...I can't.
- Cooking. All.The.Time. For some reason they insist on eating three meals per day every day...multiply that times approximately 30 years, and I will have cooked WAY more than I ever thought possible by the time they all graduate to doing all of their own cooking.
- Laundry. Multiply 13 loads per week, at least, times 52 weeks per year, times at least 20 years.
- Heartache. Everyone gets sucked in by the mesmerizing baby-scent. And you love that baby...and then it grows up. Or doesn't. And there is the heartache of childhood illness, and mistreatment in school by bullies, or teachers who don't understand, or lack of financial resources, and the child's broken heart over that first or second or third romantic interest...and for some reason no one ever explained that the heartaches just got bigger as the child grew more independent, or that the young adult years would be harder than all of the baby and toddler years combined.
The joy of having a large family, and the love that is multiplied is amazing, and I wouldn't trade it for anything...But is there someone I can complain to about that whole "informed consent" thing? I REALLY didn't know what I was getting into here!!